RAISE YOUR LOVE VIBRATION THROUGH SELF-LOVE

These are some of my favorite passages in “The Love Book: The Secret to Finding Your Soulmate” by Diana Palm.

 

— There is only one way to raise your love vibration...this is achieved through self-love.  True self love means honoring yourself enough to step away from unhealthy partners or relationships.  Self-love means that you heal your negative patterns before attracting a new relationship.  Self-love means that you are coming from a place of stability and a high functioning life of balance rather than from lack and desperation for love.

When you achieve true self-love, your love vibration will raise and you will attract more appropriate mates (who have also done the work to raise their love vibration).  This is the focus of my Manifesting Your Soulmate System and the work I do with private clients.  I help people discover their hidden love blocks from previous conditioning and genetic influences and gently heal them.  I reprogram their subconscious mind to release patterns of victimhood and lack while instilling new feelings for love, worthiness, and abundance.

My goal with this book is to help you to help yourself.  I will provide you with the tools to improve your love life and manifest your highest potential soulmate.

When your love vibration is high and you attract your highest potential soulmate, the energy dynamic of this relationship will differ from any previous relationships that you have experienced.  You will experience a relationship that is in alignment with your life path and your partner’s life path.  Both partners will thrive and your relationship will be healthy and strong.  You will find true happiness.

 — First, let’s differentiate between self-care and self-love.

Self-care is a commonly supported idea that involves different types of pampering and valuing time alone.  This may include meditation, relaxation, yoga classes, artistic creations, exercise, massage, spa treatments, and spending time in nature.

Self-care is extremely important to find balance and peace in your daily life.  It helps you to release stress, gain a better perspective on life situations and allows you to take a time out from the normal fast pace of life.  

Many generations previous to ours didn’t value self-care.  They were taught to be dedicated, selfless, and to sacrifice their personal needs so that family and others could survive or excel.  They were often taught to live a life of obligation, neglecting themselves for the people around them.  Self-care was devalued and not supported.  If you were raised in a family with these beliefs, you may have been made to feel guilty for wanting to take time for yourself.  You may have become accustomed to putting everyone’s needs before your own and this may have caused you to feel overwhelmed by life.  The messaging in these families may have taught you to play the role of martyr, sacrificing your own needs to make others happy.  If you have lived this way for an extended time, you may have many unfulfilled dreams.  This energetic imbalance could also lead to poor health.  

Self-care is essential to living a life in balance and giving yourself the love and nurturing that your soul craves.  It can help boost your self-esteem, give you time to reflect and find inner peace.  This inner peace will enhance your overall state of well-being and add significantly to maintaining your health.  Self-care is an essential factor in attracting love and a soulmate relationship.  When you put your needs last, your soulmate will not awaken to find you.  Making self-care a priority will attract your true soulmate into your life.

Now let’s talk about self-love and how this differs from self-care.  Self-love encompasses everything that self-care does but with an even deeper dimension to it.  Self-love exists below the superficial surface of self-care.  Many people think that self-care is enough to attract and keep love but it is only the first step.  If you are reaching for your highest potential soulmate then you must first embody self-love. Self-love is easy to recognize because you radiate kindness and confidence in your world.  You make choices that create financial and emotional stability in your life.  If this means that you need more education, you commit to it.  You eat foods that support the feelings of love you have for yourself and provide more energy, clear thinking, and a healthier body.  You may use personal care products that are higher quality, organic, and free of pesticides.  It is easy for you to make good choices in love and relationships because you are accustomed to making choices that are good for you in your other life activities.  You know what brings stability and growth to your life in healthy ways and you do not wait for someone else to provide it for you.  You recognize that if there is an area of your life holding you back, that you can heal it, overcome it, and achieve what you desire.  You reach out to advisors, mentors, and coaches to help you accelerate in every area of your life.  You are not afraid to take the necessary steps that lead to your happiness.

Self-love means that you eliminate toxic people and situations from your daily life and move toward positive people and situations.  You resonate with uplifting positive friends and thrive in projects that you believe in.  You know that you are a master in your own life and that complaining, taking on the victim role or being confused are signs of being out of alignment with your ability to love and value yourself.  You know how to become clear within, how to trust yourself and how to move forward.  You put your name on projects that you believe in and take chances that grow your soul. 

When you have self-love you can be gentle with yourself and forgive yourself quickly and easily so that you can move forward.  You can also forgive others quickly and retrieve your lessons from each situation without being victimized or feeling sorry for yourself.  The energy of self-love is a high vibration that doesn’t become stagnant.  It knows there is a divine timing to things and allows you to feel comfortable being able to let things unfold without pushing for quicker results. 

Self-love doesn’t chase dreams; it takes steady steps toward them.  Self-love doesn’t chase love; it radiates it and attracts it.

Take some time to think about how you have created space in your personal life for self-care and how you embody self-love.

** This wonderful book includes a Self-Care and a Self-Love Checklist!

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